You Have To Take Care Of Yourself Before You Can Take Care Of Everyone Else

Posted: November 14, 2019 By: Comment: 0

Whenever you fly on an airplane, you have to go through a safety presentation before take-off. This used to consist of the flight attendants demonstrating the use of seat belts, and reviewing emergency information, but these days, it’s often presented as a video on your personal screen. At one point in the presentation, the use of air masks is demonstrated and it always strikes us that it has to be pointed out to mothers to put their own masks on before assisting their children. Why are we mentioning this? Because it’s a powerful reminder that we have to take care of ourselves before we can take care of everyone else. Mothers in particular are guilty of not doing this far too often.

Make yourself a priority so that you are in a position to look after everyonel else

It’s easy to take care of everyone else around you and forget about yourself. We are taught from an early age to put ourselves last when it comes to self-care. This is particularly true for women. Yes, there are times when others have to come first. Your newborn doesn’t have a choice and you’ll be sacrificing a lot of time, sleep, and energy in those first few weeks and months. But that’s temporary and if you ever forget what a toll failing to take care of yourself can take, think back on those crazy first few months after bringing your baby home.

The vast majority of our time, taking care of everyone else before ourselves is a choice we make, and one we want you to become more aware of. We don’t always intentionally put ourselves last. It’s just a habit we’ve gotten into and it’s time to break it. Don’t get us wrong. we’re not saying you need to put yourself first all the time. All we are saying is that when you do, it should be a conscious choice.

We are also here to tell you that it’s ok and necessary to take care of yourself first at times. The consequences of always putting yourself last are just too costly. More often than not, when you put yourself last, there’s nothing left over. Over time that means you spread yourself thin and you’re not the best parent, partner, co-worker, friend, etc. you can be.

Putting everyone else first can lead to burnout!

It feels good to put ourselves last, but when we routinely do it, we’re doing more harm than good to those around us. It causes us to be stressed and exhausted. Starting today, make an effort to carve out some “me-time”. Do something for yourself, even if it’s just enjoying a quiet cup of coffee alone, or catching an extra 20 minutes of precious sleep. It’s well worth investing time in yourself. Do so more often and see for yourself how powerful the impact can be.

Join us again for tomorrow’s post, the 15th of November with Day 10 when we will share another QuickStress Buster with you!


Joanne Lee

Joanne, owner of The Full Spectrum Centre Limited has over 18 years experience. She has helped a wide variety of client types in meeting their expectations and achieving their goals, and specialises in holistic health, well-being, relaxation and stress management. Her wealth of training and experience allows her to tailor make our services to accommodate clients’ needs. She works closely with her Therapy Dog Rosie, who helps clients to feel assured, calm, relaxed and comforted during their sessions. Visit her team page to find out more....

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